Small efforts can give big results.
There are some common differences between men and women. For eg: women are more aggressive purchaser than men. Women keep hunting for best whereas men buy it if it is satisfying. Women keep discussing the same thing repeatedly. So, we can say women try for best results whereas comparatively men are less devoted in household matters.
We should not be biased that my partner is intentionally fighting all the time.
Some common problems and easy solutions are given here. If you think there are other reasons or problem, please give in comment so that we can discuss.
Quarrel is actually not the problem. Problem is something else and quarrel is reaction of that problem.
First thing is 'what is the problem'
IF THERE IS A PROBLEM. THERE IS A SOLUTION
Reasons
(} Husband wife quarrell most of the time is without any reasonable reason. Many times we notice few days after quarrel that this was just a foolish thing for such a silly matter.
(} Superiority complex hurts the self respect and feeling of other. "What do you know? You know nothing."These type of words should not be used. This is a common problem I find. This is unbearable for anyone.
(} Though both love and care for each other still they feel scarcity of same from the other side. Being loved and cared in the way one wants is one of the important reason.
Husband brought a new dress for his wife. But she has no interest in dresses, instead she like to go for outing. On the other side wife cooked a dish with full dedication but husband is not bothered about what is cooked, instead he loves to sit ideal without disturbance.
In both the case there is care but the other partner has no value for it. Try to understand what your partner is doing for you.
(} Communication gap is also another reason of quarrell. One is saying something else and the other one is taking it in a different way. Give chance to explain his/her point. Listen to other partner. This can solve big problems.
See what happens when two people do not hear each other :
Two deaf people crosses each other on the way.
Mr A : Hello where are you going. are you going to the market?
Mrs B : No. I am going to the market.
Mr A : Oh! I thought you are also going to the market.
(} Both want to make their children excellent and dynamic. But how ? There starts a conflict.
(} Male, female, working couple, housewife, religion, culture,etc. people from different segment see the same thing from different point of view.
(} If there is no love and care there is no problem. "Who Cares " but we care. We cannot run away of it. This is because we care for each other. Only the need is UNDERSTANDING.
(} "I am doing the best possible. what else do you want." This what else is an unidentified subject. It need to be searched.
(} EGO. What to say about it. everyone think I dont have an ego problem but everyone have it. Got to get rid of this. Both are from different background and environment. Naturally their experience will influence their thoughts. Have respect and value what the other one think or want to do.
{} Extra marital affair, drinking habit, etc. are some serious reasons that should be handled carefully with patience.
Solution to this problem
How to judge a best friend. Best friend is one who tell you when you are wrong, and not the one who always praise you. So if you are opossed dont take it in a negative way.
DISCUSS. DO NOT QUARRELL
Talk softly in low voice. Try to explain instead of forcing to accept what you say.
Sometimes these quarrells developes to such extent that there is a divorce. All divorces are not because of major reasons. Many families can be saved from being broken up.
We have two ears and one tongue. So please HEAR MORE and SPEAK LESS
DONT DO SOMETHING PERMANENTLY BECAUSE YOU ARE TEMPORARILY UPSET
If you have quarrells read this blog once a week together with your partner for four weeks. See the difference.
One can take help of Astrology also. In many cases it has been very helpful.
One can take help of Astrology also. In many cases it has been very helpful.
share your problems. Speaking out relieves tension and anger. You cannot talk to known people about this problem. So, release yourself here. may not give your identity. Also comment on others problem.
DIVORCE is a social crime for people who have children. What is the fault of the child losing one of his/her parent. Instead of divorce Why not live separately together for the sake of the child.
Time can heal deep wounds also. Give time.... some time.
Please read this blog repeatedly and dont be biased that you are correct and your partner is wrong.
Please read this blog repeatedly and dont be biased that you are correct and your partner is wrong.
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Husband Wife Jokes
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Wife is
always asking money from husband. Husband is fed up
of this habit. One
day he say : You are always asking for money . You should sometimes ask
for some knowledge also.
Wife : I can ask only for what you have
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Wife : Marriage is "once in a lifetime moment". Describe it in your own words.
Husband : Accident
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Wife : You should know 'behind every successful man there is a woman'.
Husband : Now I understand that is why most of the men are unsuccessful
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husband was returning home after doing creamation of his wife. on the way there was lightening and loud thundering. husband said ' I think she has reached there.'
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husband : If I had known you are such a fool, I would have never married you.
wife : I also realised it only after marrying you
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wife :our neighbour mr raj loves his wife so much why not you?
husband : I also love her very much but she is not giving any response.
Let me share a t.v. advertisement that was telecast about 20 years back. A customer complains about fridge he purchased one week back. On enquiry he said every thing is perfect but it does not make sound while running. All his friends fridge makes sound while running. Serviceman said this is a new technology.
So we see here What We Think To Be A Problem May Actually Not Be So.
Husband wife quarrell is not a new issue. Neither it is a serious matter. But if it happens again and again it becomes serious. Let us share and solve this problem
HAPPY MARRIED LIFE. What do you think is a happy married life. Happily married doesnt mean life without quarrell. You cannot eat sweets alone, also need some salted or other item along with it.
Let me share a t.v. advertisement that was telecast about 20 years back. A customer complains about fridge he purchased one week back. On enquiry he said every thing is perfect but it does not make sound while running. All his friends fridge makes sound while running. Serviceman said this is a new technology.
So we see here What We Think To Be A Problem May Actually Not Be So.
Husband wife quarrell is not a new issue. Neither it is a serious matter. But if it happens again and again it becomes serious. Let us share and solve this problem
HAPPY MARRIED LIFE. What do you think is a happy married life. Happily married doesnt mean life without quarrell. You cannot eat sweets alone, also need some salted or other item along with it.
Husband wife problem can be declared the biggest problem in this world as highest number of people are facing this problem.
