Reasons of quarrel

                                    Reasons   

(}  Husband wife quarrell most of the time is without any reasonable reason. Many times we notice few days after quarrel that this was just a foolish thing for such a silly matter.

(}  Superiority complex hurts the self respect and feeling of other. "What do you know? You know nothing." This is a common problem I find. This is unbearable for anyone.

(}  Though both love and care for each other still they feel scarcity of same from the other side.  Being loved and cared in the way one wants is one of the important reason.

Husband brought a new dress for his wife.  But she has no interest in dresses, instead she like to go for outing.  On the other side wife cooked a dish with full dedication but husband is not bothered about what is cooked, instead he loves to sit ideal without disturbance.

In both the case there is care but the other partner has no value for it.  Try to understand what your partner is doing for you.

(}   Communication gap is also another reason of quarrell.  One is saying something else and the other one is taking it in a different way. Give chance to explain his/her point.  Listen to other partner. This can solve big problems.

See what happens when two people do not hear each other :

Two deaf people crosses each other on the way. 

Mr A : Hello where are you going. are you going to the market?     

Mrs B : No. I am going to the market.

Mr A : Oh! I thought you are also going to the market.

(}  Both want to make their children excellent and dynamic.  But how ?  There starts a conflict.

(}  Male, female, working couple, housewife, religion, culture,etc. people from different segment see the same thing from different point of view.

(}  If there is no love and care there is no problem. "Who Cares " but we care.  We cannot run away of it.  This is because we care for each other.  Only the need is UNDERSTANDING.

(}  "I am doing the best possible. what else do you want."  This what else is an unidentified subject.  It need to be searched.

(}  EGO.  What to say about it. everyone think I dont have  an ego problem but everyone have it.  Got to get rid of this.  Both are from different background and environment.  Naturally their experience will influence their thoughts.  Have respect and value what the other one think or want to do.
 
 {}  Extra marital affair, drinking habit, etc. are some serious reasons that should be handled carefully with patience.